Variety is definitely something that people can take for granted. This was never more evident to me than in my sex life. I was always raised to believe in being with one person and making the union work. Well that just hasn’t worked for me and it took a few tries and a crazy intervention in order for me to come to my senses. I had been in steady relationships for a long time and it always seemed like I was the one giving myself and not receiving very much in return. I’m definitely an educated man, but when it comes to passions of the heart, I’m quite a novice.
My friends tried telling me that they didn’t like the girls that I was dating. Me being stubborn, I figured that’s they were just being jealous of me. On one particular occasion my friend was walking around the mall and he saw my girlfriend at the time with another guy at a restaurant. At that point he was very confused about whether he should tell me, but he did. I was completely in denial and did not want to believe my friend. Come to find out he was right and I was heart broken.